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Saturday, 24 October 2009

  • Jia You!! 加油!!

     

    To one of my friends..

    Only those that you truly love can truly hurt you. If you have ever had your heart broken, you know that it is an incredibly painful and saddening experience. It may seem at times that you will never recover from the experience and be happy again. Although the scars may still remain, there are many things you can do to help recover from a broken heart.

    STEP ONE

    Be active in the healing process. Recovering from such a traumatic loss is not a passive event. You have to be ready and willing to examine yourself and play an active role in moving on with your future.

    STEP TWO

    Take care of yourself first. Picking yourself up and being aware of your diet, exercise and sleep schedule is a great place to start. You need to make sure that your body is getting what it needs so your mind and heart can heal more effectively.

    STEP THREE

    Assess yourself. Think about all the reasons you started the relationship and what things you ended up compromising on that you should not have. Decide what qualities or activities you let go that need to be reestablished in your life and make a plan to do just that. Create a new list of what you want in your next relationship and work on strengthening those qualities in yourself.

    STEP FOUR

    Create a "new you." Evaluate how you have changed and give some of your new interests or perspectives a chance to thrive. Join a new club or take some new classes in your community. Start creating a new individual identity that revolves around the new you.

    STEP FIVE

    Forget the "what ifs." After a relationship has ended, no amount of wondering what the outcome would have been if only you would have done or changed this or that will make the person or relationship come back. Focus now on the future and what you want and need to be happy and successful down the road.

    STEP SIX

    Find an outlet for your emotions and casual sex does not count. Talk to your friends and family, sing, dance, draw, sculpt or participate in an activity to release your emotional stress. Keeping things bottled up inside slows down and can sometimes stop the healing process altogether.Find a way to express your emotions (and casual sex does not count).

    STEP SEVEN

    Give it some time. Time alone does not heal a broken heart, but it can help make the pain less intense. Use the time after your break-up to work on yourself. Specifically, do not try to find another relationship to cure you from your broken heart. The reality is that you will only hurt yourself and possibly others in the end by jumping into a rebound relationship right away.

     

  • F A M I L Y

    not too bad.... about 2 months never update my blog only...

    searching through my laptop and found some interesting photos which never share before.....

    don't have any for Ah Girl, Ah You and Recxy here.... so sorry... We shall go with all these first...k ya!

    i QC already... u all look nice except me.. i wonder why my look always so 'chan'..... aiks....

    Photos taken in Aug, 2008 with Jeong....

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    Photos taken in Nov, 2008... the success reason of closed relationship between ah ying and ah boy.....

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    Photo taken in Dec, 2008....

    Casual Day... * lovely parents and cutie ying *

    papa mami on webcam ah ying demo shower

    Tong Zhi Day.... and was ''eating'' tong yuan via msn messenger.....

    looked YUMMY~~~ very hungry now.. but why ah you not in? ?

    tang yuan

    A precious moment with your loved one not necessary have to be in physical, though that will be great and perfect.... I learnt something from the people; from the environment....and treasure all these wonderful memories in my heart deeply...

    I LOVE YOU, MY FAMILY......

     

     

     

     

Saturday, 22 August 2009

  • I am Sorry to say that....

    I have to.... GIVE UP.....

    我对不起大家。。。。很抱歉的说。。由于私人问题。。我要放弃继续写我的七天台湾之旅。。。

    但是,大家别灰心。。。别伤心。。你们还是可以到阿悠和奉霜的部落格去。。她们都成功地完成了台湾的七天旅哦。。内容非常非常精彩哦。。

    http://www.xanga.com/uucat

    http://tammyinnovative.blogspot.com/

    真的很不好意思啦。。一定要去看看她们的Blog。。 看看台湾有多好玩!!

    虽然没法继续完成我接下来的台湾旅程。。但是还是要在这里分享我的感言。。

    非常非常感谢我的好友,瑞婷。。 让我们有个那么好玩充实难忘的台湾之旅。。我想她可是承受了不少压力。。那时又得准备考试。。又得安排旅程。。不简单哦。。

    还有很难得可以与好友一起去旅行。。想一想,中学毕业后都有差不多整九年多了。。虽然啊。。少了一些好友。。她们都无法安排时间去。。真的很可惜啊。。 

    其实这一次的旅行。。 让我很感动。。 因为平时很少机会与彼此沟通。。之前我还担心会有“不熟”的问题呢!可是,却让我知道我们好友之间的感情都没变。。 在一起的感觉还是那么的舒服。。 那么的快乐。。

    还有Peter和我姐。。大家相处得不错。。但是总之大家的默契都很不错就对了!!我知道我偶尔会去“孤岛”一下。。也许忽略了你们。。嘻嘻。。我就是会这样的嘛。。别见怪!

    总之,这是很赞很棒地台湾之旅。。我下次肯定会再来!!

    HURRAY~~ I WILL MISS YOU, GUYS and I WILL MISS YOU TOO, TAIWAN!!

     

     

     

     

     

     

Sunday, 02 August 2009

  • Taiwan Trip 19/7 - 25/7 -- Day 2

    第二天,睡醒后的时间..加上大家梳洗(除了我们的瑞婷小姐) 和打扮的时间。。差不多接近午餐时间了..瑞婷带我们去了吃日本鳗鱼餐..这家真的是thumbs UP!!!需要预先定位才可以。。他的鳗鱼真的很好吃。。我现在肚子饿。。好想念这家的鳗鱼饭。。yummy~~ 

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    Wah..大家排队拍照片呢。。

    开餐咯..它的Menu有很多不同种类的鳗鱼餐。。都是中文字。。是很深奥地中文字。。

    看看这些照片。。 真的很好吃。。如果你吃的分量不是很多。。可以两人share 一份。。这样还可以尝试其它的鳗鱼哦。。

    这是鳗鱼饭。。口味不一样。。seaweed and egg.. 虽然好像很普通。。但你在这家可以吃到肥厚地鳗鱼。。它的鱼肉。。哇。。都是大条新鲜的鳗鱼。。

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    这是蛋卷鳗鱼。。口感很好。。蛋卷很香。。 另外拿比较黑的是鳗鱼肝。。起初不是很敢吃。。但当你吃入口时。。就像鸡肉一样。。很好吃哦!

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    那这是蒸鳗鱼。。在平常的日本餐店里。。很少有机会吃到蒸鳗鱼。。配上它的酱。。hmm..真的很不错哦。。

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    下次再来台北。。一定要在来这家。。我偷偷在奉霜的Blog,save 了这张。。for future reference mah...hehe...  也是对你们有好处啦。。

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    吃饱后,就搭计程车回旅店拿行李。。准备出发到花莲!!

    这是新光三越,这里的著名百货公司。。就像马来西亚地JUSCO,新加坡地OG,比较大型的百货公司。。

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    在短短地路程从旅店到车站。。竟然看见瞒有趣的事情。。猜猜他们在做什么呢?!宏伟数学。。飞哥英文。。。他们都在招生哦。。很有趣吧!!在炎热的天气。。真是辛苦了!!

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    每天只有一班,时间两点半,程搭台铁从台北去花莲。。路程大约两小时。。也可以搭巴士去。。不过需要四至五个小时哦。。

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    终于抵达目的地了!!花莲!花莲!WeAreHereForYou!!!!

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    到了花莲车站。。“梦田信箱田园民宿”的老板已经在等待我们的到来。。如没记错。。他名叫“欧德”。。

    (又是广告时间:梦田信箱田园民宿 pls visit http://www.dream-home.idv.tw/)

    这是梦田网页的照片。。你们看了肯定会很想去。。超美丽超浪漫。。。还有很多很多photos and information.... must visit their website!!

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    浪漫二人套房。。。蜜月二人套房。。。

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    温馨四人套房。。。etc...

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    我们已经到了梦田民宿了。。。

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    这就是我们好梦幻地房间了。。。先是小客厅。。然后小走廊,厕所在左边。。然后就是很梦幻很浪漫地床。。。。!! 我们都快抓狂了。。哈哈。。

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    这间当然就是那对恩爱地夫妻咯。。丰霜和Peter!!

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    房间外的环境。。很不错吧。。花莲的空气很清新。。好舒服!!

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    settle down 后。。 瑞婷,奉霜和Peter去Spa..我和阿悠就到附近走走咯。。做Spa要到另一个地方。。 巴里情人 附近。。欧得先生载我们去了巴里情人。。他们去做Spa,而我们俩就去骑脚车。。很特别地经验。。到处的风景都很漂亮。。我想爸爸妈妈会很喜欢。。

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    这里也是民宿。。我想“巴里情人“是专给情侣的吧。。。奉霜和Peter在这Atap屋做着Spa。。

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    突然间在这片稻田旁边,很想唱周杰伦的稻香。。"还记得你说家是唯一的城堡。。随着稻香河流继续奔跑。。微微笑 小时候的梦我知道。。"

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    Spa需要一小时。。所以我和阿悠也绕了这个小村接进一小时。。很累但很开心。。因为这是难得地经验。。哇。。爽咯。。。嘻嘻。。。

    大家梳洗完后(除了我们的瑞婷小姐)。。晚餐也准备好了!!肚子好饿哦!!我点了“三杯鸡”as 我的晚餐。。好饿。。好期待~~

    我和奉霜选择了“三杯鸡”。。

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    婷选择了“牛腩”。。

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    阿悠和Peter则选择了“蓝带猪排”。。

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    有没有觉得很像日剧“Beach Boy" 。。就是从那时开始就很想有机会到民宿去住一住。。体验一下那感受是如何。。 现在终于实现啦!!很喜欢。。好过酒店许多倍呢!谢谢你, 婷!

    哎呀。。吃饱了。。又有节目了哦。。我们要骑脚踏车到花莲的夜市逛一逛。。 欧得老板带了我们去”停车场“选”车“。。大家选好”车“后。。就准备出发啦~~

    想不到我们的庄瑞婷小姐。。竟然是我们的”赛车“组长。。她真的很行,也很型。。一路上带领着我们一直冲啊冲的。。过马路也一样。。我记得我根本没机会看左右。。只听见婷所”可以过!“,就这样过了大马路。。真是捏了一把冷汗。。哈哈。。但是真的是很刺激哦。。去夜市的路线是下山的。。所以大家都骑得很爽。。回去的路,就惨了。。。

    Yeah~ 到了夜市。。先把”车“parking 好。。(就这样停在路边, 不需要锁的。。很难得吧。。如在Malaysia or Singapore..早就不见了)

    好了,废话少说。。也懒得说那么多。。开始逛吧!!

    我们买了这个咸水鸡。。瑞婷超爱吃的。。我不是很喜欢。。因为我觉得它很“鸡”。。而且好像有臭豆腐的味道。。不知道是不是因为咸水鸡档的对面是卖臭豆腐的。。。不过还好每有什么人跟瑞婷争吃这个。。让她独自慢慢享受。。嘻嘻。。。

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    大肠包小肠。。好像也很出名哦。。我们也有买来试一试。。等下你们看下面的照片。。就知道瑞婷和奉霜很爱这个“大肠包小肠”。。她们的表情看起来很开心哦。。

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    法式棺材板。。有点像French Toast。。不过这是中式的做法。。还有很多口味的。。我们选了“酱爆猪肉”来试一试。。

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    这“第一家烤肉串”很夸张。。有号码显示。。我们等了好久才烤好我们的串串。。不过我们喜欢吃这个的Squid。。很好吃!!!!!!

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    因现在是夏季。。台湾有好多水果都很大很甜。。看吧。。那么大的西瓜耶。。西瓜汁是一定要喝的啦。。很甜很清凉。。在闷热的夜市。。喝了这杯西瓜汁。。爽死了!!

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    在等待烤肉串的时候。。我们就去了Seven-Eleven买些饮料。。竟然让我们发现它-花莲的Open将。。Open 将是台湾Seven-Eleven的代言卡通人物。。很可爱吧。。我们决定每人买一件。。明天的太鲁阁游将会穿上它。。。很有意思吧!!不要嫉妒我们啦。。敬请期待Day3 的Blog咯。。

    (其实本人还不懂什么时候才能完成Day3的Blog。。哈哈。。update Blog 真的很累一下。。

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    回民宿的路上。。很不简单。。。是要上山的。。。而且我们五人是满载而归的。。费了九牛二虎之力。。到了!!把“车”停放会“停车场”。。准备吃台湾的夜市小食咯!!!

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    这个花子烤串串。。很好吃。。我拿着那三角形的是猪血糕。。其实如果你不懂它是猪血的话。。口感就像普通比较粘密的糕点。。不会有腥味。。不过我们不是很喜欢,也许是心理作用吧。。。

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    我们边吃边谈心事。。好久都没与好友这样。。悠闲地谈天说地。。真的很开心!!

     好了。。。update到好累的第二天。。终于完成了。。。慢慢期待我台湾游的第三天吧!!我会加油的。。。尽力而为!!

      

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  • today is a sad day.. my sister fly off to US for her further studies... i hope she can take good care of herself.. we gonna miss her a lot

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  • Buttercup_JeongJeong
    PLEASE UPDATE YOUR BLOG!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • shYerLyn
    i miss you guys too.. and mami and papa, my lovely jie mui.. recxy and boyboy... so much so much.. so BORING here... yeah.. jeong, i miss it.. how we confused boyboy by calling different names..hahahahhaha.....(ah girl sure staring at us now, bully her BB - not BiBi but BoyBoy, ok? hehehe I am coun
  • Buttercup_JeongJeong
    Shyerlyn jiejie, i MISS you so so badly here.i miss those times i bullied you, i miss you accompanied me to buy Laksa, i miss you helping to dye my hair, i miss you laughed at me when "i pretended to faint", i miss we bullied BoyBoy as calling him as "Marry"..i MISS everything back in Malaysia!!! I
  • VinSquare
    Shryerlyn Jiejie! =D
  • uucat
    miss u lek,... miss u ler....
    • Posted 2/28/2008 6:11 PM
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  • uucat
    yea...visit mine too!!!!
    • Posted 1/7/2008 4:42 PM
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  • shYerLyn
    Hey, jeong... i hope u will visit my blog soon :) this is my first blog.. i spent lots of time, working with ah you to explore on this xanga.com, u knw? :) You can always leave a short message here.. so that we can keep in touch very closely as you know the timing in U.S & M'SIA having big GAP...